I'd
like to share two lists with you - one applies to men, the other
to women. These are things that men and women do not enjoy hearing
about themselves. Avoid making statements along these lines
at all cost!
No
man likes to hear the following about himself:
1.
That his language is poor
2.
That he is getting older
3.
That he lacks nerve/backbone
4.
That he isn't good with women
5.
That he doesn't manage his money well
6.
That he appears like a wimp
7.
That his memory is poor
8.
That he isn't intelligent
9.
That he is short
10.
That he can't take a joke
What
no woman likes to hear about herself:
1.
Any physical imperfections
2.
That she looks good "for her age"
3.
That her hair is turning gray
4.
That she looks "just like" another woman you know
5.
Never ask if she has been married before
6.
That she is gaining weight
7.
Never act like you take it for granted that she has a job -
if she says she works, tell her how you're amazed she can look
so good and work at the same time
8.
Never mention her age - period
9.
Never ask if she has children. Make her think you believe she
looks like a young woman that has led an easy life.
10.
Never ask how big her feet are.
When
dealing with either sex, always avoid "comparison praise".
Everyone wants to be unique, so comparing them to someone else
is a losing move. Even if you compare them to a celebrity they
still may take offense. Remember: all comparisons between people
are risking at best!
About
The Author:
Hamilton Miller is the creator of The
Elite Social Control, a gripping book that reveals the
brutal science of mind manipulation and other controversial
mind control secrets. CLICK
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